Sometimes realizing you are in love feels like you are out of control, it can feel like you are falling down the rabbit hole. However, it doesn’t have to be this way if you TRUST YOURSELF. You get to set the pace, you get to take small steps so it’s a natural, gentle progression for you. Love should never be forced, it should be comfortable and easy. What is there to rush too anyway? If you stay centered and follow your heart it will always guide you to exactly where you want to be.
There does come a time where LOVE will ask you to grow and stretch yourself. This will inevitably happen. However, no matter how scary it may feel initially, it is important to stay present and open during this time. It is your soul calling you to reach higher, desire more for yourself and your life and encouraging you to TAKE RISKS. Its about expanding your comfort zone. If you lift weights when you go to the gym, after a short while it’s comfortable to stay at the same weight time after time however if you just raise the weight even 5 pounds you will be pushing through your comfort zone. The benefit of this is HUGE. It not only gives you the confidence to go even further the next time, you also feel really good because you have accomplished something that will greatly benefit you and will bring you closer to what you want.
Try this affirmation and really feel the word “ease” and exhale as you say it – “The relationship I want is one of ease.”
My picture this week came to me while I was shopping at the mall… Its delicious and one of the most magical things in life!!
“Love is supposed to be easy. It’s our human dramas that make it difficult.” – Samantha Rosen